I'm having no luck finding rings. My OEM centerbore is 57.1mm, the new wheels are 82mm. I cant find a set of hubcentric rings to fit in there. help?

I'm going to assume that your lug nuts are self centering. Just bolt the wheels on and forget about the hub ring.

Something like these.
http://www.cwausa.com/TunerLugNuts0001.jpg

i wish, my car uses ballseat or conical seat studs, no such luck